Samples of Readings

Here are a few samples of readings. You can find more inspiration on Pinterest. My account name is Karen Stringfellow [Celebrant] I have a board created – Wedding Readings & Poems. Or you can download my eBook at the bottom of the page.

When you love someone, you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to pretend to. And yet this is exactly what most of us demand.

We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of the tide and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return.

We insist on permanency, on duration, on continuity; when the only continuity possible, in life as in love, is in growth, in fluidity – in freedom, in the sense that the dancers are free, barely touching as they pass, but partners in the same pattern.

The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what was in nostalgia, nor forward to what it might be in dread or anticipation but living in the present relationship and accepting it as it is now.

Relationships must be like islands, one must accept them for what they are here and now, within their limits – islands, surrounded and interrupted by the sea, and continually visited and abandoned by the tides.

-Anne Morrow Lindbergh, Extract from Gift from The Sea

A soul mate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be.

Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise.

Our soul mate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soul mate is the one who makes life come to life.

Richard Bach, A Bridge Across Forever


Download my “free” eBook

It has lots of ideas of;

  • readings
  • ideas for custom vows
  • inspiration for making your ceremony different

I put together this eBook to help you choose a reading and create your own vows.

Need ideas with writing your vows? Click here

Big tip for planning a wedding – Create a timeline for the day. Click here for information on creating a timeline for the wedding day