Karen Stringfellow [Celebrant]
My name is Karen Stringfellow, and I am a marriage and funeral celebrant located in Brisbane. I love weddings and will be your celebrant where ever you invite me. I service the Gold Coast, all of Brisbane, the Sunshine Coast, northern New South Wales and all the way out to Toowoomba.
Planning a destination wedding? My passport is current, pick me!
“Yes, I did miss my wedding day & I regret it!”
It’s crazy but, I did miss my wedding day. Not in the physical sense but definitely in the mental sense. See, I was an original Bridezilla and control freak with the smile of an angel.
I planned my wedding day down to the last minute and dollar. I did everything myself and was proud to be able to throw together a DIY project for the day.
Pintrest wasn’t a thing back then but I had the bride scrapbook and an excel spreadsheet.
By being so focused on everything else I missed our special day. I don’t want this for you.
On my wedding day, when I got out of the car I focused on the placement of the string quartet. Were they playing the right song? Did they wear black like I asked them to? I worried about everyone standing in their right places, when I should have been focused on my groom and my marriage ceremony.
I missed a special day in my life because I was trying to make it perfect, by myself. A big mistake.
Calm down the Bridezilla
See, by being a Bridezilla I missed the most important parts of my special day and;
I missed the faces of the loved ones who had traveled so far to see us get married.
I missed the look on my groom’s face when I walked down the aisle to him.
I missed saying our vows – I don’t remember a single word or the look on my groom’s face.
I missed the words of our exchanging of rings – (I do remember pushing the right finger in my groom’s hand when he attempted to put the ring on the wrong finger).
I missed how proud my Dad was to walk his only daughter down the aisle.
I missed the kiss – What a shame, I don’t remember this at all.
I was so focused on getting everything right that I saw nothing. I remember nothing. It has always been a regret.
“Let me help you before the Zilla creeps in.“
Why choose me to be your celebrant?
One of the reasons I became a celebrant was because I was so disgruntled with my wedding day.
Don’t think I am blaming anyone. I am the one to blame. I should have trusted more, asked more questions and asked for help, but I didn’t. And that is my fault.
Now that I am a celebrant, I ensure that I help couples any way I can. My goal is to take some stress from you when preparing your wedding ceremony.
I will ensure you, that I will;
- support you anyway you need up to the ceremony (and beyond if you need it)
- I will make sure we have all the details worked out and listed on a script, so you do not need to worry where someone is to stand and what they need to say
- I will ensure the music is organised and starts on cue
- I will ensure you that I will take care of as much of the ceremony details as you allow and want
- I will help and guide you with any decisions about your ceremony
- I encourage we have a rehearsal, so your bridal party feels comfortable and less anxious on the day
- Be available to you so you can call me anytime for advice on any part of your wedding day
- And my favourite part about being a celebrant is that, I will make sure that the two of you are in the moment when saying your vows.
From time to time, I see a Bridezilla or Groomzilla at my coffee meetings. I remember how I felt when I was getting married so, I do what ever I can to hope this person will give me a little of their trust. After all this is their “life event”, their “day of all days”. They want to know that their day will be just perfect! I understand this and embrace it.
“I will put my whole being into your ceremony, that’s what us Virgos do”.
I have a blended family of 5 children with Mr Wonderful. We went to school together and met up again 4 years ago after marrying other people and doing our own thing.
I am in my 40’s and am having the time of my life. I have only just started to travel as I was a single mum for many years with my 2 girls. This was our “Gilmore Girls” years. [I even moved to a country town.]
We love the memories and my daughter’s and I have an unshakable bond that I am truly grateful for.
My day job is in the dental industry. I have been working in the industry since I left school and still love it. That is 27 years!
Be warned! I am a hugger! I will probably hug you at least one time in the time we spend time together planning your wedding or funeral (don’t worry my hugs don’t linger and become awkward.) I just get excited! I also really love getting to know my couples and families. I love sharing ideas with them and – I become a bit of a Mum really. But I love it.
Let me help you by being your organised angel. It would be my absolute pleasure!
“No Bridezilla’s at your wedding!”
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